The Real Me…


What if I tell you I’m not as happy as I try to be on my fb, instagram, or YouTube channel…

What if I tell you I’m not always looking picture perfect as in pictures I upload on my fb, instagram or whatsapp…

What if I tell you I’m not always motivated as I seem to be from my blog posts on WordPress and statuses on fb…

What if tell you I don’t eat all the classic, air of Michelin star meals as I show on my social media…

What if I tell you…

I’m very often sad, some times depressed, I suffer mood swings in my periods, sometimes before and after it as well. I only click my pictures when I really am sure that I’ll look perfect or I take them from an angle that fakes my real body type and make me look prettier. Almost everyday I doubt myself once if I really will be able to achieve something in my life as it seems to be running out of my hands. 

What if I tell you…life on my social media is not what I live..and the life I live is not on my social media.
That’s why it’s called social media because it has the things that you do in a society..and of course each one of us is a completely different person in private…

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You live less & die more!

You dream less & worry more,
You love less & hate more,
You release less & restrict more,
You do less & think more,
You care less & expect more,
You smile less & scream more,
You trust less & doubt more,
You share less & want more,
You visit less & wait more,
You hear less & speak more,
You live less & die more,

You live less & die more…

You know what’s wrong..

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You know what’s wrong..when you tell yourself to change because someone else would like you more than now,

you know what’s wrong..when you take 2 steps ahead and 4 steps back because you want to achieve your goals quick,

you know what’s wrong..when you think your gender should get equality but other genders should be put down for it,

you know what’s wrong..when you tell yourself you are someone superior just because you studied some place ranked higher in a list,

you know what’s wrong..when you yell at someone just because you’re angry and you’ve got right to do it as you’re the parent,

you know what’s wrong..when you want things to change but you don’t put much efforts into it as that’s not your business,

you know what’s wrong..feeling bad about your life while checking out happy fun updates on social media of your friends simultaneously you doing the same,

you know what’s wrong..projecting a better but a fake version of you in the society to be admired but expecting others to be real,

you know what’s wrong..praising and blindly following your religion without questioning anything but disliking others doing for theirs,

you know what’s wrong.. a lot of other things. Think about them, at least once and LIVE a BETTER LIFE..because it’s your STORY and you gotta make it CORRECT!

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Making it better..

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Complains, complains and complains!

We’re very good at that. He should have done this, she should have done that but not this and so on. Our complains never come to an end. It was her bad attempt, it was her mistake, his wrong decision, their incapabilities blah blah. We tend to blame each and every person we can possibly think of or spot around us. Nothing has ever been blamed on our own self. It is always others or the poor destiny that is the culprit.

I would’ve done it better”, ”I could’ve made it perfect”, ” if I was in control it would’ve been a big success..”. I wonder, seriously wonder, how can we be so naive in blaming and complaining and not realizing the core problem behind it. Perhaps, as we’ve been doing it since centuries we’re efficient and capable in doing that. We are so good at whining and pointing out the errors, imperfections and faults that we never ever thought of thinking beside all this crap.

We all want to be wise but, not think the way a wise person would,

we all want to be happy but, not want to let the child inside us stay alive,

we all want to have a beautiful life but, not want to create one…

We want to grow old, narrate our kids, grand kids and all other kids or young people the ”great things” we’ve done in our lives, sacrifices we made etc. But we never told or want to tell how to ”not blame” or ”not think” of bad and negative things but have a positive perspective about our lives and the World we’re living in. So what, if someone did something wrong and we couldn’t have what we could’ve had otherwise. Why not thinking at least we tried, made an experience and learned from it. So what, if someone wasn’t capable enough to do a job s/he still tried to do it and not everything ends in a successful result. So what, if things around are not according to us, we can be according to them or try change them…

Life is short to hate and blame things or people around but it is for sure long enough to love and appreciate people and make things better around for yourself and others!

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It’s okay not to have it all PerfecT!

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People are unhappy, no matter what you give them, they’ll be unhappy. Each one of us once – for sure – has faced a time where we wanted to have things done the perfect way but somehow couldn’t and we blamed either our own incapabilities or the someone else’s for that. I am one amongst them, in fact on the top list. I have had uncountable number of days that didn’t go according to my wish and I ended up with grudges and bad moments. It took me time to realize, that’s okay.

It is okay to have a bad day, it is okay not to have something you wanted, it is okay to have a task unfinished, a deadline missed and I don’t know what more..We live in a World which is and can never be perfect, no day, no weather, no job, no situation, nothing is perfect. We are the biggest example of imperfection. From our childhood, we learn to do things without making mistakes, getting the best out of the situation and growing as a perfect person. But it isn’t that simple (in fact impossible). We always do mistakes – sometimes repeat the same ones again and again, we leave situation in a bad state – sometimes without even realizing it, and we do not grow into a better person. Rather a lunatic, searching for something not existing.

Life is beautiful. Yes, it is and it is worth mentioning a trillion times and more. Be thankful you’re not the person in Gaza or in Syria who is scared to death of bomb attacks. Be thankful you’re not the person begging on streets in India, Pakistan or Bangladesh who cannot even afford to eat once a day. Be thankful you’re not the person in a hospital dying of a chronic disease leaving your family behind. Be thankful rather than being sad of not having something accomplished. It isn’t the end of the World.

Tomorrow is a new day, a new opportunity to get your things back in shape and get started, today is the day to relax, recall and being thankful for things you’ve enjoyed,

tomorrow is a new hope to get stuff under your control and get your strength to a next level, today is a day to rejuvenate from the battles you’ve won,

tomorrow is day to stand up and rise and conquer the World for your happiness and peace, today is the day to be thankful that you’re still alive and can still bring a smile on your face!

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